I did see Ellen DeGeneres have a dark pink face.  She must know an older European lady I'm supposedly supposed to have a "relationship" with is still getting away with not totally being done since her face wasn't actually all ruby red.  ...  She seemed frustrated, like she's chasing this lady to punish me, to ruin it for me, the "relationship."  People must believe these things are the source for feeling good, too, for them.  Most people have other things they can worry about.